♣♣♣PlAstIk versus Impokrita na TaO♣♣♣

Ano nga ba ang impokrita?
Ito ay isang tao na mapamintas sa mga bagay na kanyang sinasabing mali subalit isa siya sa mga unang tao na gumagawa ng mga mali kanyang pinaka ayaw. Kung sa unang tingin o pananaw ay masasabi natin na ang impokrita ay plastik ngunit malaki ang pagkakaiba ng dalawang nilalang.

Plastik defined:
Ang plastik ay isang taong mapapanggap na gusto nito ang isang tao o ang isang bagay ngunit sa totoo ay hindi. Kalimitan ng mga plastik ay impokrita dahil lahat ng bagay na mali lamang ang nakikita nito sa taong kanyang pinaplastik. Ngunit hindi lahat ng impokrita ay plastik. Bakit? Dahil may mga impokritang matatapang pumuna sa mga "mali" na sila rin ay nakakagawa. Bat ko nga ba naisipan itong topic na to? Sa totoo lang wala lang. Pero ngayon na aking sinusulat na ito ay napagtanto ko (wow lalim to pre!) na dumating din ako sa panahon na ako ay naging impokrita din. Human nature na din siguro ang pagiging impokrita. Sa kagustuhan natin na mas maging lamang sa isang tao ay nagiging impokrita tayo. Nangyayari ang pagiging impokrita pag gusto natin na maging mas mabuti tayo sa isang tao. Lumalabas ang panget na ugaling to kapag gusto natin pagtakban ang mga bagay na ginagawa natin ngunit hindi tanggap ng lipunan.

The Secret saved my lifE

I just wanted to let you all know how The Secret book and DVD have saved my life. I am a stay at home Mum and since my teenage years, I've battled every day with depression and anger problems. Then my friends told me about The Secret. I read the book first and since then I have felt just awesome everyday! It has changed me, my relationship with my loveones. I've realized that life doesn't have to be so hard.

People have now started coming to me for advice, which never would have happened before. When someone wonders why my life has become so great in all areas, I tell them to read the book or watch the movie.

Thank you soooooo much for spreading the word on The Secret. You make it so easy to follow and you made me realize the full potential that is in me!!!!

☺☺☺CarCaR CiTy PhiLiPPiNeS☺☺☺

Camotes Island Destination Kabkaban Festival Carcar City Jose Rizal Park Car Car City

The City of Carcar is 40.5 kilometers southeast of Cebu City. Its boundaries are the Municipality of San Francisco in the north, the Municipality of Sibonga in the south, the Bohol Strait in the east and the municipalities of Aloginsan and Barili in the west. Carcar City has a population of 100,632 people. The Heritage City of Cebu, Carcar is home to various Spanish to American period structures. Carcar is administratively subdivided into 15 barangays namely Bolinawan, Buenavista, Calidngan, Can-asujan, Guadalupe, Liburon, Napo, Ocana, Perrelos, Poblacion I, Poblacion II, Poblacion III, Tuyom, Valencia and Valladolid.

Balay na Tisa in Carcar City Carcar's interesting history dates back to the pre-Spanish colonial period. the town originated from a seaside settlement called Sialo. The settlement was at the mouth of the Minag-a River and the natives early contact with the Chinese traders who frequent the place to barter goods in exchange for farm produce. When the Spaniards came in the middle of the 16th century, Sialo became the town of Valladolid, named after a town in Spain. The town's progress made it a target of raids of moro marauders, driving villagers to the uplands. Soon, a new settlement was established in a site, which came to be known as Kabkad, from the word Kabkaban, a species of hardy fern that was aboundant in the place. Later on, a Spanish priest changed the name to Carcar, after a small town in the province of Navarro in Northern Spain.

Carcar is known as "Little Marikina in the South" because of the bustling shoe-making industry in barangays Poblacion 3, Liburon, Valladolid and Perrelos. Carcar is known for native delicacies such as sweetened rice crispies called ampao, the sweet bocarillo made of young coconut meat and the famous Carcar-made chicharon. The Carcar plaza alone hosts several Heritage structures, the Church of St. Catherine of Alexandria dominates the area. Within the complex various structures stand. Walking towards Sta. Catalina street one will surely be astonished with the quaint houses and their distinctive architectural details. Must see destinations in Carcar include St. Catherine of Alexandria Church, the Theotokos Shrine in Perrelos, the Mainit-Mabugnaw National Park in Guadalupe and the old residential houses of the Noel and Leocadio-Justine Barcenilla families. Getting there to Carcar City in Cebu Province Mini-busses, aircon and non-aircon buses as well as vehicles-for-hire or VHire that leave for Carcar every hour are available at the Cebu South Bus Terminal. Upon reaching the town, tricycles, trisikads and motorcycles called habal-habal take tourists and locals around the town.

BOHOL TOURIST ATTRACTIONS

BOHOL TOURIST ATTRACTIONS

	Chocolate Hills is about 1-1/2 drive by car from Panglao Island. It is advisable to to arrive at the Chocolate Hills as early as 07AM in the morning feel the cold breeze or just enjoy the scenery at its finest.
	A lunch at the Riverboat Cruise is a must. A Php250 buffet lunch cruise is worth the price-includes seafood, barbeque, fruits, etc. Enjoy the magnificent view as the cruise tours for around 45 minutes while being serenaded by a native
Man Made Forest	Tarsier-world's smallest primate	Biggest python in captive
Baclayon Church	Blood Compact Marker	Bohol Sunrise
Dolphin Watching	Balicasag Island	Balicasag Island Resort

♥♥♥How To ManaGe Our Anger To lOveD One♥♥♥

Everyone gets mad at family members occasionally. Whether you're irritated by a parent's interference, a child's disobedience, or a spouse's inattentiveness, it's important to learn how to manage anger before it starts to manage you. The thing about anger is that it often rebounds on those who initiate it.

Get hold of negative emotions before they take root in your heart and grow a cluster of inappropriate actions. A nasty attitude, hurtful words, or a cold shoulder are not the way to resolve differences. Instead, give some thought to trying these suggestions:

say things without meaning them, or without realizing their effect on others. Give the person a chance to explain his or her intentions before describing your feelings. Chances are a good, open talk will help to clear the air between you. Choose a private meeting area away from others, preferably in a public place to avoid the meeting occurring on someone’s “turf.” Be prepared to listen long and talk little.

2. Forgive and forget. If a relative continues to hurt you over time and apologizes after each occurrence, learn to forgive and move on. Don't set high expectations for this person to change in the near future. Instead, accept her "as is" with the understanding that the hurt is probably unintentional. While it is all right to point out the problem behavior as it takes place, you may have to accept that the relative is unable to control words or actions that lead up to the infraction, perhaps lacking emotional maturity or personal responsibility.

3. Practice avoidance. If your family member continues to offend after you have made it clear how you feel, you may need to step back from the relationship and give the other person some time to think things through. That doesn't mean you give the cold shoulder whenever you happen to meet, or refuse to return calls or be friendly at social gatherings. It means that you maintain a friendly tone if your paths happen to cross at family events, but keep your distance in terms of initiating one-to-one meetings.

4. Seek a mediator. If the conflict escalates or it becomes necessary to find resolution, ask a neutral family member or third party that both of you trust to hear both sides and try to work out a compromise. Sometimes those too close to a conflict are unable to sort the issues like a third party can.

5. Be kind. Those who are hardest to love are often the ones that need it most. If your difficult family member is stubborn or difficult, try to maintain a friendly veneer without endorsing problem behaviors. Send a card, take over a plate of cookies, or mail a gift. When an unlovable person feels loved, his or her outlook can change dramatically.

The bottom line is to never stop working on family relationships. Though you may need to take a time out, keep a degree of distance, or surrender hopes of relational growth, you can still maintain a family relationship through patience, perseverance, and persistence.

Ten Ways to Make Your Relationship Last

One of the ways to live a long life is have close relationships. Having close friends and lifetime partner help us live longer and healthier lives for they help us alleviate stress, boredom and depression.

Here are tips to make your relationship last.
1. Communication is the key Constant communication must be maintained even on the busiest day. Nowadays time and distance is not an issue anymore if you really want to talk to each other
2. Don’t force him to change for you
It’s a no-no to force him to change his ways, you have to accept him or he’ll find someone else. Let him take the initiative to change, your life will be so much better.
3. The key to a man’s heart is through his stomach The age-old saying is true. Making your man yummy dishes makes him love you more. So make an effort, it does not have to be an overnight thing. Learn one or two of his favorite dishes then gradually add more as time passes.
4. Support him in his decisions His decisions are not always perfect but it’s his to make, just be there for him and give your opinions or just be with him on this difficult time.
5. Make your thoughts and feelings heard He is not a mind reader. On the early phase of the relationship it is crucial that you let him know what your stand on things like how many children do you want, do you plan to keep working even as kids. How about finances? Would you have separate accounts?
6. Include him in decision making Have a partner means any decision you make can and will affect him too. So before accepting a job that may include travel ask for his opinion on it.
7. Let him pamper you
The modern woman is independent and can take care of herself fine. But I discovered that men like to pamper us once in a while.

8. Don’t let the romance die Just because you already lasted 5 years mean that you don’t need to go on dates anymore. Where is the fun in that? Regularly going on dates keeps the sparks going even if you’re old and gray.
9. Make time Even if your busy with your career its no excuse not to have time for him. No sacrifice is too great just to spend an hour or two of quality time with before your end your day.
10. Work at it Many think that once you get married, everything is okay, you have your man and you will live forever. Actually the REAL work is just starting for you and your prince charming to reach that forever after.

"Best Friend, Best Enemy"

Best Friend, Best Enemy, "kuno"?mga Kumento's

pErson1. kinsa motoo dire nga ang Best Friend nimo mao ra pod ang imong Best Enemy?
cge ra gyod ko kadungog ani da, pero hope nga i won't end up like dat wid my besfwen...huh what a mess gyod....me and my best are friends for almost 13yrs now, so far so good.kamo what can u say? or na experienced ba ni ninyo? share naman guys .
perSon2: Yes its true... kay for years you trust your best friend... but when something will happen.. kay most of the bestfriend kay mo baliktad... mag wonder na lang ka ug ma ka ask to yourself " How come she did it to me... ambot but im sure not every bestfriend sad i think...
perSon3:well i think not all pero kasagaran daw ing ana.....sa akong friend b4 iyahang case is super kay love triangle man. unya wat is ang iyaha besfriend nahug nga "bridge" nila sa iyaha suitor. pero at the end diay ang ngkauyab ang iya best ug ang guy. huh to think ha nga walay ka alam2x ang girl nga ngkauyab na diay sila....ay amobt oy di ko karelate kay la pa man god ko ka experiencd. pero if ako pa cguro to, na diyos ko ay na lng gyod pakita nako.
peRson4:well i think not all pero kasagaran daw ing ana.....sa akong friend b4 iyahang case is super kay love triangle man. unya wat is ang iyaha besfriend nahug nga "bridge" nila sa iyaha suitor. pero at the end diay ang ngkauyab ang iya best ug ang guy. huh to think ha nga walay ka alam2x ang girl nga ngkauyab na diay sila....ay amobt oy di ko karelate kay la pa man god ko ka experiencd. pero if ako pa cguro to, na diyos ko ay na lng gyod pakita nako.
pErsoN5:There is always the possibility..The best way to put it is not that your best friend is your best enemy, but that your best friend could be your best enemy..Best enemy in such a way that he will be your most dangerous and most destructive enemy because he knows almost (if not all) everything about you which he can use against you..That is why there is wisdom in knowing your enemies more than you know your friends..
perSon6:Best friend = best enemy.. yup, cuz ur bestfrend knows almost everything bout u, especially ur weaknesses which he/she could use to get the best of you..

♦♦♦Being rich is as much a trap as being poor♦♦♦

So. You wanna be rich, eh? Been thinking of all the cool things you could do with, say, seven million dollars in your multiple bank accounts, all the things you could buy on a whim, things you've always wanted to do or have. You think you're ahead of the game when you say, "Money can't buy me love." You think your Karma is due for a booster shot when you envision that fat donation to the charity or religious organization of your choice. You smile impishly at the thought of denying the government its tax money with your battery and arsenal of lawyers, accountants and financial planners that you can hire. You dream loftily of that trip to Bermuda you've always wanted to take or that vacation in France that has been haunting your dreams for a decade. You will be so glad to be rid of the days when you don't know where your next meal will come from. Insurance will be paid (but pointless once you're rich). Bills will be a fogotten memory. People will flock to your feet just so that you can step on 'em a little and, perchance, leave a few rolled up bills in your wake. The new car. That new house. That new wardrobe. That new life. But I'm here to tell you: It's a trap. You won't be any happier with a ton of money in your bank account than you were when you didn't have it. As a matter of fact, things will get damn boring sooner than you'd expect. Why? Because you'll be able to afford anything that comes across your path (except, maybe, Temptation Island). One of the biggest draws of not having money is so utterly simple that many people miss it altogether until they're no longer faced with it. When you're rich, risk goes out the window. When you're broke, and suddenly find yourself with an extra $100 in your pocket, you decide to splurge on yourself- get some books you've been meaning to read, perhaps a new VCR or DVD player. The accounting system in your head tells you that you should put the money away and save it for something bigger and better, but the temptation to spend it immediately gnaws at you until you actually do go out to Opry Mills for a 15-minute shopping spree. It's the risk of teetering on the edge of being broke again that makes poverty so entertaining. Now, I'm not saying that having TB and no money to visit the doctor is fun, but if you're sitting on that edge with "money to burn", well you're almost compelled by the powers that be to burn and burn fast. When you're rich, that goes away. No more risk, no more element of danger. This, I think, is why so many rich people gamble and play the Stock Market. It's that certain, incomprehensible desire to be dangerous, to risk losing it all, that makes gambling so much fun for those who can afford it. That's the key: Risk is for those who can afford it. Certainly, there are people who get addicted to gambling, addicted to the rush of it, but there are many more who just like the uncertainty that comes with it, which is beyond them in normal, day-to-day life for the wealthy. Once that feeling of danger is gone, once there is no more element of challenge and adventure, you begin to miss it rather quickly. It turns some souls rotten and cruel, hateful of themselves and others all because life is worth living to anyone but the rich. Money doesn't create happiness. Money doesn't buy you love. Money doesn't solve your problems. The more money you have, the more headaches you inherit. So enjoy it while you don't have it. Live a little. Get a life by spending that extra dollar.